Why these pick up artist tips are important
These a quickfire style tips which should be in the back of your mind at all times, the moment you start to swerve off track and get sucked into the dark side of pickup… you know the strange forum guys, just read these and get back on track.
They’re also important because it’s so easy to get side tracked.
Most guys will just throw in the towel because they feel it’s too hard or they might start over analysing every situation with a girl and end up doing the same things over and over again which is very bad.
But you? Na, you’re different dude… because you have these PUA tips to hand.
So here they are:
1. Get a reliable wingman
A good wingman is hard to come by. Seriously, a reliable, confident and normal wingman who grows as you do, is a rare thing. So it’s important that you find someone who can roll with you on your PUA journey.
If you don’t get a decent wingman I’m afraid it’s going to be very hard to pickup certain women in certain situations. So get searching for one.
2. Don’t use any forums… you weirdo!
Ok, before I start slagging of PUA forums. There are some good ones out there that are great for a couple of things, like finding a wingman in your area and also reading inspirational posts from other guys who went from nothing to banging a handful of girls every week.
However MOST of the guys on these forums are there for the glory, they aren’t there to get laid or learn from other guys. They turn into forum jockey’s, give out useless advice which they don’t even use themselves and are terrible for your game, so stay well away from them.
3. Get some style home boy
Fixing your fashion is soooo understated in the PUA community, but incredibly important for attracting women. You don’t need to spend thousands on new threads, but a few hundred bucks/pounds would be a good start and you can get some really cool styles with that amount of money.
Not only will new clothes boost your self confidence, it will also make you seem more attractive. It’s vital that you focus more on grooming as well, things like trimming your beard or using some facial wash/cream to smooth out wrinkles and get rid of dry flaky skin.
4. Be strict with yourself when learning
Set aside certain days and times to game both on your own and with your wingman. If you’re not strict with the amount of time and effort you put into learning pickup, then chances are you’ll still be at the same level in a years time.
Set yourself a clear goal (I will talk to 5 women this Saturday before 1pm and get 2 solid numbers) and follow through with that goal until completion.
5. Work on your approach anxiety
Approach anxiety is a killer and it will kill your game stone dead if you let it. Firstly you must understand that it will never go away, no matter how long you’ve been picking up women. Secondly, it won’t get any easier unless you practice, so keep practicing daily.
6. Move out of your parents house you bum!
If you’re still trying to pickup women at adultfrienedfinder app and you live at home with your parents, it’s going to suck big time. If you can, get a place of your own in a busy part of town, so it’s easy for bouncebacks with girls off the street during daygame and in the clubs / bars. Trust me this is a big step up.
7. Keep trying new thingy’s
With any new or existing skillset, you’re always going to be learning, so never reject trying new routines and certain pick up artist techniques. Becoming a pick up artist takes time and it means that you need to grow as a person (sounds cheesy I know, but it’s spot on).
8. Be honest and direct
Stop using in-direct crap. There is a massive debate in the community that says in-direct is better in some situations. I personally think this is B.S and will just waste your time if you follow this advice.
Always be direct and let the woman know your intentions the moment you meet her, it will cut through the fluff and kill off the time wasters.
9. Don’t hate the player…
There are always going to be guys out there who are better than you at picking up women, so deal with it. It’s up to you to get better, stop hating on other people and definitely don’t bitch about it on a forum like a little girl.
10. Devise a routine
Routines work. So come up with a routine for the most common situations you’re in. For example, if you like going to bars, then work out the best way to approach a girl, what the best opening line is and how to close her so you can get her back to your apartment.
It’s a trial and error process, but a routine is the best way to pickup women when it’s natural and you’re own.
So there it is me old matey. The 10 best pick up artist tips for both newbies and skilled PUA’s.